I am delighted to welcome Sunny Angel with her powerful autobiographical account, ‘Wings’, as my first guest author to Writers at the Gate.
Read on to find out more about this remarkable book...
‘I always get what I want and I will get you.’
When Sunita captures the eye of a predator, her world is turned upside
down. Subjected to the barriers of living with a traditional Indian family,
Sunita finds herself unable to seek the support she needs from them.
Facing her predator alone, Sunita, young and naïve, finds herself drawn
to him; a man who claims to have the power to destroy her family if she doesn’t
comply with his demands.
Desperate to keep her family from harm, Sunita gives in. He says he
loves her … more than her family does. When his manipulation moves to the next
level, Sunita finds herself trapped in a world she could never have imagined.
It was almost like she was three-years-old again, but this time, things are
worse … much worse.
Her fear, feelings of degradation and shame only compound the emotional
turmoil she faces. Chained by the guilt of bringing heartache and shame to her
family, Sunita starts to believe this is the life she cut out for herself.
After all, that’s what everyone was saying, so why shouldn’t it be true?
Sunita finds herself propelled from one form of abuse to another … a
victim can either surrender to their abuse, or rise above it …
This is the inspirational true story of Sunny Angel and her strength to
overcome the manipulation, lies, violence, threats and violation she was
subjected to. Her scars tell the story of a survivor …'
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Publisher : Red Admiral Press; Illustrated edition (10 July 2017)
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Genre: Biographical
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Language : English
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Paperback : 298 pages
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ISBN-10 : 1999763203
· ISBN-13 : 978-1999763206
‘Wings’ is available on Amazon HERE
About the Author...
My name is Sunny Angel, I changed my name via deed poll so I could share
my story to safeguard others. I now have a new life as well as a new name. I’m
42, I was born in England and I live in Woking, Surrey, the outskirts of
London.
Ever since I was diagnosed with
Atrial Septal Defect (Hole in the Heart) my mission was to tell my story
before I die, to help inspire others to heal. I didn't want my pain to be
wasted. I'm thankful my experiences have helped safeguard many others. I
believe Life is for living, not just surviving or existing.
I was sexually abused as a child. At
17, I had a stalker who groomed me through fear of hurting my Family. He raped
and tortured me in a locked house for 6 months. Following my escape, my Parents
allowed me back only to get rid of me via a Forced Marriage. I wasn’t ready for
marriage, so I left to go to a homeless shelter where I did an overdose and
attempted suicide. I woke up in the hospital realising death had rejected me
too. My Parents then coerced and forced my marriage to a man with disabilities.
The Groom’s family wanted ‘Dowry’ and gave me and my family abuse. My Parents
collected me after 4 months of marriage and it ended in divorce.
Now, I am a Speaker, Campaigner,
Author and Survivor Ambassador. I wrote my Book ‘Wings’ with my friend Paul
King. I have had the honour of doing speeches with Nazir Afzal OBE, Jasvinder
Sanghera CBE, Family Division Judges of the High Court, Lord and Lady Justices
of Appeal, Barristers, Multi-Agency, Social Workers, Drs, Hospital staff,
Teachers, University Students, School Parents, Major Crime Unit, Several police forces, Multi-Faith, Inter-Faith and Charities.
I have worked with seven Universities.
I am a Finalist for the Heroine of
the Year Award (Domestic Violence) 2017, Nominated for Author of the Year WLA
2017, Finalist for the British Indian Awards 2018 (Arts & Cultural
Awareness), Winner for the Beautiful Survivors World of Honours – Ladies of All
Nations International 2018, Winner of the She Inspires Award 2018 and True
Honour Award 2019.
‘Wings’ has featured in various
Newspapers, National and International. TV, Radios and Documentaries.
Please visit my website www.sunny-angel.com for further information.
Sunny on Twitter: @777SunnyAngel
Excerpt: Women
Empowered (online magazine)
The biggest life lesson I have learnt is to stop
beating myself up about the past. I have had to face my past, own it and deal
with it. And then I have had to learn how to move on. The past no longer hurts
me, it’s just a story now, says ‘Wings’ author Sunny Angel.
As a teenager, I was
stalked and then groomed. The scars on my back from the attacks I suffered are
now covered by a large wings tattoo so my young daughter cannot see the scars
of my past. It was a heartbreaking time.
Today I empower others by
teaching them that it’s not OK to accept abuse as love. I teach others to love
themselves and have boundaries so they do not feel vulnerable and become
targets. I also teach them how it is possible to move on and accept the past
and not let it define them.
I strongly believe
mindsets need to change so I have chosen to share my story globally.
Nationally, I have been honoured to have done great speeches alongside Nazir
Afzal OBE and human rights activist, Mandy Sanghera for The University of
Nottingham and Forced Marriage Unit (film to be released soon). I have also
spoken with Jasvinder Sanghera CBE at the WOW (Women of the World) Festival and
with Polly Harrar at the Sharan Project. I’m also on the New Karma Nirvana
Survivor Program.
I went live on Zee TV to
talk about my abuse, in the hope that others will not suffer in silence and
seek help. There are now new laws in the UK with regards to forced marriage and
controlling behaviour and lots of support is available. People just need more
awareness and education.
Reproduced courtesy womenempowered.co.uk
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1 comment:
What an interesting blog. This makes me want to buy the book. I feel it will be a compelling read. Not normally the type of book i would read but this has grabbed me.
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